However, if your ex decided to leave you, this means that he believes he will be happier without you. Why? This is the first thing you must consider before making any attempts of reconciliation, otherwise you will probably break up again for a second time. Did you nag all the time or were too jealous of him? And if so, are you actually willing to change? If, on the other hand, he left you for another woman or because he was not ready to commit, then are you sure he is actually worth all the effort to win him back?
Think about it, and if you decide that you want him back, take a look at the following steps:
* Step 1 Give him some space and time to see how his life will be without you. If you had regular contact in your relationship, very soon he will begin to miss you and then it will be the right time to make your move.
* Step 2 Arrange a meeting with him, but don't tell him that you want him back. The best way is to send him an email or a text message. I don't recommend a phone call, because you may become very emotional and make him defensive. Also, by sending him a message you give him the opportunity to respond whenever he wants. Of course, it goes without saying that you should never go uninvited to his work or his house.
* Step 3 Let's say that he agrees to meet you. The first thing you need to do is not appear desperate and start saying things like, "I can't live without you"," I miss you", "Don't you miss me?" etc. On the contrary, you should be relaxed and talk casually about your job and new friends. Due to the fact that he will suspect that you are still interested in him, he will probably be defensive in the beginning. But, if you look comfortable and relaxed you will remind him of the good old times when you used to be happy together.
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